Sacred Sexuality For The Modern Man
Welcome. I’m glad you’re here.
Most men never get a space like this.
A space where they can finally exhale…
finally drop the pressure…
finally say the things they’ve never told anyone.
You don’t need to pretend here.
You don’t need to perform.
You don’t need to hold it all together.
You get to be real.
It’s confronting but…..
Let’s speak to the quiet truth you carry inside you.
Maybe…
You love sex, but the pressure to perform never truly leaves.
There’s a constant little knot in your belly — “Will I be enough? Will I last? Will I disappoint her?”
You think about sex constantly… and sometimes it runs you more than you’d like to admit.
You’ve found yourself scrolling, using porn, paying for experiences that leave you empty after.
You’re exhausted from holding everything together — the work, the family, the responsibilities — while feeling like you have nowhere to let go.
You secretly crave a woman who can meet you, challenge you, guide you deeper — without judgement.
If you recognise yourself in even one of these…
you’re in the right place.
What you want is simple… and deeply human.
You want:
To feel confident, assured, purposeful and content.
To let go of performance anxiety and pressure.
To stop feeling hijacked by urges, habits, or endless scrolling.
To experience intimacy that feels real, powerful, nourishing.
To feel desirable, grounded, and fully alive.
To be met by a feminine presence that softens you… while also awakening you.
To learn how to open, lead, and love from your deepest masculine centre.
This is what I help men reclaim.
And beneath all of that… you want freedom.
Not abstinence.
Not suppression.
Not perfection.
Freedom.
Semen retention isn’t about never ejaculating.
It’s about learning to choose —
from strength, not habit.
From presence, not compulsion.
Sex evolves into something different, you enter an entirely new reality, one that isn’t about performance, and you can begin to release the control.
Because when you unhook from the dopamine-driven cycle of porn, scrolling, cam-girls, late-night habits and urgency-driven ejaculation…
…your potency returns.
…your magnetism rises.
…your confidence deepens.
…your clarity sharpens.
…your relationships transform.
…your entire life elevates.
Your sexual energy is sacred power.
You’re not meant to waste it.
You’re meant to use it — for vitality, purpose, leadership, creativity, love.
This world needs men like that. We are struggling without you!
Your partner needs that.
Your family needs that.
And truthfully — you need that.
Tantric WORK WITH ellie
Tantra initiation
Realise your sexuality goals, learn ejaculatory choice and become multi-orgasmic. Become magnetic to women. Harness your sexual power and peak performance in life, love & sex.
Embrace a deeper path in tantric practices with Ellie’s specialised guidance in Ejaculatory Choice. Learn why meditation, exercise and healthy living are important for enlightened sex.
Discover Energetic Mastery, where you can channel your sexual vitality, elevating your intimate moments into transformative experiences.
Ellie’s program is your gateway to sexual enlightenment and dynamic interpersonal relationships, guiding you to a life of exhilarating passion and profound connectivity.
Tantric massage
Explore wellness benefits, re-wire your sexuality, unhook from unhealthy habits and expand into your potential. Experience deep bliss, relaxation, expanded erotic states and re-juvenatived sexuality.
Discover the ancient Tantric Principles - through receiving Tantric Massage in Auckland.
Awaken the spiritual and holistic side to your sensual nature.
Learn to circulate your energy throughout your entire body, nurturing mastery over your arousal. Sessions can enhance your skills as a lover through increased presence and connection, and a mindful approach to sexual engagement. Embrace sexual empowerment, heightened confidence, and a renewed sense of aliveness, heal from deep-seated issues and embrace your sexuality wholeheartedly.
Live EVENTS
In-person Tantra events for the discerning modern man. Whether it’s a different way of dating in Tantric Connections or learning relational tools and skills in our Neo-Tantra workshops, you are sure to harness more of your potential and build community along the way.
Step into the realm of profound intimacy with our Tantric Connection Temple Nights in Auckland; expertly crafted evenings that weave together elements such as relational skills, Neo-Tantra tools, the art of acting and improv, along with authentic relating games.
Join our community and transform the way you relate date, and connect with the world around you.
Praise for Essential Tantra
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S.Mieras, NZ
“Working with Ellie was one of the most nurturing experiences I've been privileged to have during my lifetime of 59+ years. I felt deeply held and nourished with compassion, empathy, love, patience,respect and reverence. I am grateful for Ellie's contribution towards my personal development and evolution.”
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Stephen, Aus
“I have never felt so open and vulnerable with another human being and yet so accepted. In my session with Ellie, I was able to heal a lot of shame and discover a deeper connection to myself and my sexuality.”
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David. Nz
“Just wanted to say hi and give you a update. I’m very much enjoying the Tantric connection with my wife
I have a lot more sexual energy and love the sensations that go with it
Although my wife is not doing it with me ,without a doubt she is benefiting from what I’m doing
This is apparent in her wanting to have sex with me on a much more regular basis and her suggesting things more often
I wish I was able to connect with you decades ago my younger days would have been different lol
But better late than never to learn these things
I wish to thank you very much for for your help and wisdom.”
Work with Ellie
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