Sacred Sexuality For The Modern Man

Welcome. I’m glad you’re here.

Most men never receive a space where they can soften, breathe, and be met without judgement.

Here, you don’t need to perform.
You don’t need to impress.
You don’t need to hold everything together.

You get to be real.

If you’ve ever felt the emptiness after porn or paid intimacy…

It’s not because you’re doing something wrong.
It’s because your body is craving connection, not just release.
Depth, presence, attunement — something nourishing.

This is where that begins.

Start with Tantric Massage

A sensual, relaxing experience that reconnects you to your body, pleasure, and breath. Full body relaxed arousal, expanded orgasm.
A perfect first step for men seeking something real, intimate, and nourishing.

For a deeper feminine-led erotic awakening dive into the - Temple of Eros Massage

My signature experience.

An enchanting opportunity to engage with me.
A slow, sensual, presence-based erotic journey where you attune to my feminine tempo and enter the deeper realm of Eros.
This is the gateway to a new dimension of connection, sensitivity, and pleasure.

For men ready for transformation - The Tantric Initiation Journey

A private mentorship for men wanting confidence, vitality, sexual energy mastery, deeper intimacy, and freedom from old habits that no longer fit.
Not suppression — but erotic sovereignty.

Your next step is simple.

  • Explore Tantric Massage

  • Enter The Temple of Eros

  • Learn about the Initiation Journey

No pressure.
Just the path that feels right for you.

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Tantra initiation

Explore wellness benefits, re-wire your sexuality, unhook from unhealthy habits and expand into your potential. Experience deep bliss, relaxation, expanded erotic states and rejuvenated sexuality.

Feel more confident with women.

Improve mental well-being and emotional resilience through keeping your vitality inside.

Embrace a deeper path of tantric practices with Ellie’s specialised guidance. Learn why presence, relaxation and ejaculatory choice are important for enlightened sex.

Discover Energetic Mastery, where you can channel your sexual vitality, elevating your intimate moments into transformative experiences.

Ellie’s program is your gateway to sexual enlightenment and dynamic interpersonal relationships, guiding you to a life of exhilarating passion and profound connectivity.

Reach your peak performance in life, love & sex.

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Tantric massage

Have a mind blowing soul expanding orgasm or learn the tantric ways of holding your semen.

Discover the ancient Tantric Principles - through receiving Tantric Massage in Auckland.

Awaken the spiritual and holistic side to your sensual nature.

Learn to circulate your energy throughout your entire body, gaining mastery over your arousal. Sessions can enhance your skills as a lover through increased presence and connection, and a mindful approach to sexual engagement. Embrace sexual empowerment, heightened confidence, and a renewed sense of aliveness, heal from deep-seated issues and embrace your sexuality wholeheartedly.

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Temple of Eros Massage

A Feminine Mystery Ritual. A Sensual Awakening. A Sacred Erotic Journey.

In the Temple of Eros, you are guided into a sensual, presence-led erotic experience where you are following with your presence and relaxation:

  • the feminine opens through relaxation

  • erotic energy blooms naturally, slowly, powerfully

  • your body awakens through sensitivity, not effort

  • let go of performance anxiety and learn to trust the flow of eros

  • connection replaces stimulation

  • presence becomes the doorway to pleasure

You don’t “surrender” by collapsing.
You surrender by becoming more present and relaxing into the moment.

This is a sacred shift.

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Praise for Essential Tantra

  • George, NZ

    I've been working with Ellie now for some time and she's changed my life. I was always searching for that next dopamine hit and leaving on a high but then soon after feeling empty and depressed like something was missing. I needed a reset. I decided to dive into the tantric initiation, started learning to control my urges, to ride my erotic wave, last longer and control the beast. Suddenly I was having sessions and enjoying not spilling over. I took this into my vanilla life and I felt more confident, in control, not looking at porn, not doom scrolling Instagram for all the tittilation. Ellie challenged me to go 30 days without ejaculating. I said you're joking? Nope she was serious! 30 days seemed impossible but after I managed the first week the rest was easy. When I went back and saw Ellie she gave me one of her tantric massages and without even trying, just through relaxing into arousal she brought forward the most incredible orgasm I'd ever had and now I'm hooked. Hooked on being in control, whether 30 days or 40 days or 50 days it doesn't matter I orgasm if it's right for me and my body my mind and soul. I don't always need to orgasm it's just when my body says it's ready and when it happens it's so special. I never would have got there without Ellle's guidance, nurturing and support.

  • David. Nz

    “Just wanted to say hi and give you a update. I’m very much enjoying the Tantric connection with my wife
    I have a lot more sexual energy and love the sensations that go with it
    Although my wife is not doing it with me ,without a doubt she is benefiting from what I’m doing
    This is apparent in her wanting to have sex with me on a much more regular basis and her suggesting things more often
    I wish I was able to connect with you decades ago my younger days would have been different lol
    But better late than never to learn these things
    I wish to thank you very much for for your help and wisdom.”

  • Stephen, Aus

    “I have never felt so open and vulnerable with another human being and yet so accepted. In my session with Ellie, I was able to heal a lot of shame and discover a deeper connection to myself and my sexuality.”

  • S.Mieras, NZ

    “Working with Ellie was one of the most nurturing experiences I've been privileged to have during my lifetime of 59+ years. I felt deeply held and nourished with compassion, empathy, love, patience,respect and reverence. I am grateful for Ellie's contribution towards my personal development and evolution.”

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